the greatest advice

My good friend Lian sent me this epistle. 

the Purpose Driven Life

Don’t date because you are desperate.
Don’t marry because you are miserable.
Don’t have kids because you think your genes are superior.
Don’t philander because you think you are irresistible.

Don’t associate with people you can’t trust.
Don’t cheat. Don’t lie. Don’t pretend.
Don’t dictate because you are smarter.
Don’t demand because you are stronger.

Don’t sleep around because you think you are old enough & know better.
Don’t hurt your kids because loving them is harder.
Don’t sell yourself, your family, or your ideals.
Don’t stagnate!

Don’t regress.
Don’t live in the past. Time can’t bring anything or anyone back.
Don’t put your life on hold for possibly Ms. Right.
Don’t throw your life away on absolutely Ms. Wrong because your
biological clock is ticking.

Learn a new skill.
Find a new friend.
Start a new career.
Sometimes, there is no race to be won, only a price to be paid for some of life’s more hasty decisions.

To terminate your loneliness, reach out to the homeless.
To feed your nurturing instincts, care for the needy.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy.
Don’t bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons.

To make yourself happy, pursue your passions & be the best of what you can be.
Simplify your life. Take away the clutter.
Get rid of destructive elements: abusive friends, nasty habits, and
dangerous liaisons.
Don’t abandon your responsibilities but don’t overdose on duty.

Don’t live life recklessly without thought and feeling for your family.
Be true to yourself.
Don’t commit when you are not ready.
Don’t keep others waiting needlessly.

Go on that trip. Don’t postpone it.
Say those words. Don’t let the moment pass.
Do what you have to, even at society’s scorn.

Write poetry.
Love Deeply.
Walk barefoot.
Dance with wild abandon.
Cry at the movies.

Take care of yourself. Don’t wait for someone to take care of you.
You light up your life.
You drive yourself to your destination.
No one completes you – except YOU.

It isn’t true that life does not get easier with age.
It only gets more challenging.
Don’t be afraid. Don’t lose your capacity to love.
Pursue your passions.

Live your dreams.
Don’t lose faith in God.
Don’t grow old. Just grow YOU!

When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your life that you’ll never get back.
Your time is your life. That is why the greatest gift you can give to
someone is your time.
Relationships take time and effort, and the best way to spell love is
T-I-M-E because the essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves

God is good all the time!

and this is her……Lian!!! (hey! thanks for the friendship, for being so open minded and for listening to my “insane” thoughts. you take care. God bless!)

9 Tugon so far »

  1. 1

    thuy said,

    ehem! ganda naman nya!

  2. 2

    melai said,

    ang haba lol!! basahin ko na lang yung mga experiences mo 🙂 kahit mahaba I’m sure ma eenlighten ako :)..thanks for dropping by din at sa paglink sa multiply pala 🙂 take care always and GOD BLESS!

  3. 3

    jude said,

    amputsa alexandro!!!!! 🙂

  4. 4

    pepot said,

    makulay ang buhay dahil sa sinabawang gulay! ja ja ja ja hehehe gwapo mo talaga dude!!!

  5. 5

    doms said,

    ex mo to di ba?

  6. 6

    dec said,

    she’s very pretty kuya. uy! kaya pala mukhang masaya ka na 🙂

  7. 7

    anna said,

    pretty sya ha in fairness. so how’s you na ba? take care. stay gwapo as always.

  8. 8

    bryan said,

    ganda naman nya! you really have an eye for beauty except for one mistake bwehehehehe!

  9. 9

    brutus said,

    danda danda naman ng gerl na to bagay kayu 🙂

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